How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 20.06.2025 11:55
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Hangs out with loser friends.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Making more friends is a goal.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Why is it easy to make money in the USA?
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
That's it for today.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
How much does a doctor earn in Sweden per month?
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
How was your JEE 2024 result like?
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Why were the Japanese soldiers in WW II so hesitant to surrender in battle?
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Does not procrastinate.
He said he loves me, but why is it difficult for him to leave his wife?
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Ask yourself:
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
What kind of person makes you think "how come there are people like that"?
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
What would happen if the Earth stopped spinning for one minute?
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
What is the story behind bhai dooj?
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
What does it mean when you dream that your mother died?
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Why does it matter so much to atheists that God doesn't exist?
What I need from you?
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
How do you respond to "I don't like you anymore"?
Do not set goals—set systems.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Procrastinates a lot.